How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Would you date/marry a guy younger than you? If no, why not?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why are North Carolina Democrats against Mark Robinson? He is the modern Martin Luther King Jr. and the Democrats are being stupid for not voting him.

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why do people stop working towards achieving their dreams?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Ask yourself:

Making more friends is a goal.

Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone and it was right?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Procrastinates a lot.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Will my parents go to hell if I don't wear hijab, they tried to convince me and they provided it to me but I don't want to wear it?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why do some young mothers trick a guy into believing that they're pregnant and it's their child when years later they find out that it's not even theirs should he still pay child support or not?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hi, I’m Jo. My best friend died 2 years ago today. My husband died 6 months later. So, I’m a depressed mess (we were married 28 years) and can’t shake it. Even my Brother is worried. Some days I don’t do anything, and avoid men cause I don’t want to date. Any suggestions? Thanks for reading.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If my lovely sister sleeps with my boyfriend, what should I do about her?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What are the best self-care practices to improve mental health?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What I need from you?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

That's it for today.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.